He's 7!

Wow! It's hard to believe that my baby is 7 years old. Almost on a daily basis I'm reminded that my little guy isn't so little anymore. Sometimes it's a hug/ tackle that sends me to the floor. Sometimes it's a request for allowance or permission to walk to the arcade by himself. Other times it's a heart to heart conversation about his relationship with our Father. "I just want to love J more. I want think about Him more and more. I want my J buttons to talk louder than my toy buttons". (This was from a conversation we had the other night when he was trying to explain how he was struggling to make decisions that honored the Father. He shared with me that there were different parts of his brain that were allocated for different things. He shared how the right side of his brain was for his toys and how J had the area above his right eyebrow. He went on to say that he wanted there to be more J buttons and wanted those buttons to talk louder then the toy buttons. CJ said that when that happened he could make better choices and do the things that J wanted him to do.) I thought that he articulated his struggle very well. I shared about my similar struggles. I was so proud of him. Thank you Father for this gift that you've given us for this time.

CJ's birthday started with a breakfast of Lucky Charms while in bed. It was followed by the opening of presents and shopping with money from grandparents. He loved it & as you can see in the pictures- I don't think he'll ever tire of cars.




The celebration continued a few days later with a trip to McDonalds and a nearby play area with Eliza and his best pal Leo (Miriam couldn't make it because of illness).


And finally the Rocket Cake that he requested. He asked for a red cake but (after tons of red dye) he was content with a pink USA Rocket Cake with "CJ" printed in the middle.



We hope to make a trip to a nearby bowling alley to celebrate as a whole family in the near future. He really wanted to have a party with more friends and the family but for various reasons it didn't work out this year. But I don't think he'll mind celebrating for weeks on end. :)

Vacation in Thailand!

Our family has been on the road for 3 weeks- from the end of January till February 12 (home just in time for CJ's 7th Birthday on the 13th). One week of meetings, one week at a Home School Conference and just shy of a week for family vacation. Not till we were home did Chris point out that this was the first time that we've ever vacationed just US... no friends, no family, just the 5 of us. Chris admitted, after the fact, that he was a little nervous. He just didn't know what to expect of our time together: would the kids miss friends that they just spent time with?, would we have a hard time in such an isolated area without friends or family around us? He was needlessly concerned. Our vacation was great!

We spent everyday by the water. We swam in the pool, read books/ napped by the pool, ate meals by the pool. When we got tired of that we walked a few feet to play in the sand. We built sand castles, caught a gazillion crabs, caught sand dollars, and CJ snorkeled. At night we went Gecko hunting (thanks for fun memories Uncle Robert) and made a trip into town for ice cream, watched some Discovery Channel, and were usually all in bed by 8:00. It was AWESOME!

Forgot to mention miniature golf.

CJ & Eliza at our yummy breakfast buffet:

Kids by the pool- I love CJ's face :)

Some of the gazillion baby hermit crabs we caught- they brought us hours of entertainment.
I love this shot of the kids. Sun-kissed and so cute.
I took this picture our last morning at the resort. I'll miss breakfast, lunch and dinner by the pool.

What will she wear?

So, if you give Miriam the option to wear whatever she wants what will she choose... here's the winning outfit:



... don't forget the Michael Jackson glove (and she doesn't even have any idea of who he is- it's her own look and she's been wearing it for weeks now- she just couldn't find the matching glove this day :) Oh yeah, she had a pair of patch work shorts over top of the pants but I nixed that when we were walking out the door. (We already stick out like sore thumbs -5 blondies in a sea of black hair- I wasn't in the mood for any other comments.

The Zoo

Last month we made a trip to a nearby Zoo with a few friends. It was great! The Zoo's grounds were gorgeous- we actually felt like we were in a tropical paradise and not in an ENORMOUS city for a little while. The trees were abundant, the grounds were extensive and it was so QUIET. We had fun running for exhibit to exhibit and sharing our little bits of useless knowledge with our friends. (CJ loves to read about animals :)

Anyhow, here are a few clips of our time at the zoo!

CJ strikes a pose!


Miriam up close with a Lion- how cool is that!


Eliza and her Daddy.


OK- so this shot is not all that exciting but I couldn't get over how close the giraffe exhibit was to the neighboring apartment complex. Can you imagine looking out your window every morning and seeing your really tall neighbors?


The first attraction at this Zoo is the Panda cage. From the time we got there till hours later the pandas were sitting on their little pedestal eating bamboo. Now these pandas may have moved at some point during our visit... but I kinda doubt it. Why would they... I think I would love to lounge around too and have someone pamper me a hand fed meal.

More Christmas Pictures

After viewing a friend's blog I realized how fun it was to look at all her family's Christmas pictures. I thought I would include a few more on our blog. Hope you enjoy! (Thanks to all the family that sent packages... they had lots to open and had a great day)

Miriam's Love Gift: About one month ago Miriam mentioned that she wanted a new back pack for Christmas. I said great... lets see what type they have. Well, almost instantly Miriam had her heart set on a Winne the Pooh back pack. I was not pleased. I'm not opposed to Winnie the Pooh... but one of him on a motor cycle with dark glasses was a bit much for me. I tried my hardest to convince her that maybe a Disney Princess back pack would be more useful (more girly in my book), more beautiful, perhaps easier to carry (ok... I didn't say that but I was tempted). Or, maybe a back pack with flowers or other girly objects. Well, she had her heart set and never wavered. I also had my heart set... I was absolutely not going to buy that book bag. I was hopeful that after a few weeks she would forget the dreaded back pack and I could get her a different one. NOPE! She didn't forget. Christmas Eve I trudged over to the book store that was selling the back pack. Chris was so proud of me :) Miriam loved it. She exclaimed, "Just what I always wanted." Chris looked at me and smiled & said, "You're such a good mom". I can't agree with that statement. In my heart I was still wishing that she loved the same back packs that I did... but I have to say my heart softened a little bit throughout the day as I watched her sport her new Winnie the Pooh on a Hog back pack & repeatedly say, "Thanks Mom, this is just what I wanted."

Big Girl Bed for Eliza!

Since we have been back in China Eliza has been sleeping in a pack-n-play. Recently we noticed that when Eliza is stretched out and sleeping her head and toes touch both ends of the pack-n-play. We knew it was time to move her to a 'big girl' bed. Since I'm finished my semester of school, holidays are over, I have a little more time on my hands we decided it was time to make the transition.

Miriam had previously tried sleeping on the top bunk of their bunk bed but was a bit frightened of the height. So, we gave Miriam the option: do you want Eliza to share the bottom bunk with you or do you want to move to the top bunk and have your own space? Without hesitation she said, "I want to sleep with Eliza". The girls are best of pals and love to do almost everything together. Miriam loves to mother Eliza and Eliza loves to be mothered by Miriam. With such a combination the transition was a welcomed change for both girls. The first night there were a few comments about the sharing of covers... but there were more comments like: "Eliza, you can hold my hand if you get frightened." or "Eliza, if you need anything just let me know- I'll help you." "I love you sister".

Over the last few nights I have loved to go in their room and see where they are sleeping. Most often Eliza has used Miriam as her pillow. In the morning when I inquire about their sleep Eliza giggles and says, "I sleep on Mirsy" and Miriam says, "That's O.K., she keeps me warm."

So cute!



(sorry this is not rotated to the right position... I tried numerous times and the computer would automatically rotate to this position each time.)

Christmas 2009

We had a Great Christmas. The kids loved wearing new PJ's (compliments of their grandparents), eating way to many cookies, decorating a Birthday cake for Jesus, opening presents and having a few days off of school.

Big gifts:
CJ- mountain bike
Miriam- chalk board
Eliza- Princess castle (tent)

Favorite Christmas lyrics I've heard this Christmas:

"God made the snowman, is a happy jolly soul..." better known as Frosty the Snowman.

"He rules the world with Ruth and Grace..." also known as "He rules the world with Truth and Grace"

"Let every hard impare him rude..." - better known as - "Let every heart prepare him room..."